GARNS FAMILY

Halloween Fun '10

2010-10-31T22:27:00.000-07:00

MOTHER NATURE'S FARM

Picking out our pumpkins

The boys become very protective over their pumpkins and take pride in choosing, just the right one

Checking our pumpkin height

It's carving time...

We have some pretty talented pumpkin carvers

HAPPY HALLOWEEN

TRICK-OR-TREATING at Marley Farm

Jack, Sam, Kaden, Spencer,and Ashy

Ashy loved riding the horse in his Captain Rex costume

Scouts--Kaden Earns his Wolf

2010-10-22T21:08:00.000-07:00

A night of Scouts

Kaden earned his Wolf. In our ward they bury the award in a mound of shaving cream and whoppers. The boys have to find it, only using their mouth. They love it!!!

FOUND IT!!

Fall Break 2010

2010-10-09T21:42:00.000-07:00

Kids Fall break and off to Disneyland...

Mom's 60th Birthday Weekend

2010-08-26T19:47:00.000-07:00

All the kids decided to surprise Mom for her 60th Birthday!!

Dad pretended to take her to a hotel for the weekend and we were all waiting in the room when they walked in.....SURPRISE!!!!!

Chocolate cake of course....Yummy

All the kids had little blow horns and shouted Surprise when she came around the corner

The Birthday Girl

The Birthday Celebration would not have been complete without a trip to her favorite place....Disneyland!!!

Addie and Ashton riding Big Thunder with Grandma

The kids waited and waited to all be picked for the Jedi training, this is Ashton's favorite thing to do. This was his first time getting picked. So, he was Excited........

And Nervous..............

Waiting in line to go fight Darth Vader.....

He defeated Darth and is now a certified Padawan!!!

COUSINS hanging out in the "O"

Ashton and Kaden on the rope swing in California Adventure

The kids could spend all day in this huge play ground. They love playing hide and seek and Tag with each other. Running up and down the different levels, climbing the ropes and rock walls, and sliding down the huge slide.

Uncle Tyler and the kids. We were minus a couple who went to take naps

On Saturday we all went to the beach and had a bonfire!!!

Uncle Troy and the boys playing football

Dad, Mom, Courtney, and Berlynn chillin' on the beach

Troy's signature pose

Addie, Max and Adam building a sand castle

Hot dogs and roasted marshmallows!! We had such a great weekend.

We love you MOM

Happy Birthday!!!

love you

Spencer and Kaden's First day of School '10 / Beach Trip

2010-08-21T17:59:00.000-07:00

Spencer started 5th grade and his teacher is Mrs. Beaudoin

Kaden started 3rd grade and his teacher is Mrs. Frazier

Love these boys!!!

Ashton wanted in on the action. I love this quote that is painted on the wall at the boys school. Their mascot is the Trailblazers....Make your own mark on the world!

We took a quick trip to California with Daddy

Ashy and Uncle Tyler had a long day swimming

BEACH DAY!!!!

Ashton and his sand crabs

SAND CASTLE TIME

The boys love the beach, especially when daddy comes with us

Family Heritage 2010

2010-08-10T17:23:00.000-07:00

Grandma Meldrum with her Great Grand Children

Love our family heritage, and the wonderful examples I look to and admire.

Grandma Meldrum came to visit

Grandma and Grandpa White

I just love this picture of my Dad!! He loves this show. NCIS filmed an episode at Troy's house and Dad and Mom were able to be part of it all...

Adoption...

2010-08-09T12:35:00.000-07:00

A year and a half ago I had some medical problems that resulted in having to have a hysterectomy.
I struggled with this decision because I just wasn't sure our family was complete. After much prayer and fasting this was still a struggle because medically this decision was being made for me and I didn't want to accept it. Reality was I didn't have any other options. Physically I could not carry a baby even if for some reason I got pregnant. Finally I had to come to terms with this loss and move forward. I have been doing a pretty good job of convincing myself that we are done, I am happy with the three boys we have. They are such a huge blessing, how could I ask for more. No more diapers, potty training, sleepless nights, we are good, our family is complete!

However, a few months ago I started having this feeling that we are NOT complete! I would look at pictures of our family and feel like someone was missing. I would see little boys holding their little baby sister and it would make my heart ache. I wanted a little girl to share things with, play dolls, do her hair, play dress up, have the amazing friendship I have with my mom. I wanted Tyler to experience the love of a daughter. There is a special bond between a daddy and his little girl. I have loved having three brothers to look after, protect, and love me. They are better men today because they learned at a young age how to treat girls and respect for women. Not that my brothers wouldn't have learned this on their own from my parents, but there is an eternal bond that exists with siblings and I wanted my boys to have that blessing.
This didn't help matters much because even if I could have had another baby there is no guarantee it would have been a girl. And even though I still felt like someone was missing, I didn't have a way for that baby to get here. It has made me really reflect on how precious a gift it is to be able to bring spirits, babies into this world. It is something that I have always taken for granted because I COULD, I brought three incredible boys into this world but now I CAN'T, I no longer have that precious gift.
Awe, but we do...
Tyler and I started talking about the idea of adoption. We have fasted and prayed a great deal about this because to us this is a Huge responsibility, and a Huge blessing! Yes, this baby may not physically look like Tyler and I, but we feel that spiritually this baby was meant to come to our home. It hit me the other night as I was reading a blessing I was given. I have read this blessing a hundred times and this phrase has never had any significance until that day. It said "You were saved until this time to be born to wonderful parents" It hit me and I started to cry...
My feelings were always such: If I was supposed to have another baby, it would have come in one of the three miscarriages I had after our third son. It wasn't until that moment that I realized, That spirit wasn't supposed to come to the earth at that time. But it is Now. I can't bring it here, but someone else can...through the miracle of adoption.
There is this driving force in me that I have to act on this. Whenever I try to forget about it and think about something else, it is right there on my mind. We told the kids about our decision and wanted to know what they thought. They were all excited until the thought of Barbies entered the picture. (Which is so funny, because I never played with Barbies) We asked them to pray that we would be able to make the right decisions. Ashton, our 4 year old, said our family prayer. During the prayer, he said:

Thank you that we could get a new baby. Thank you that someone else doesn’t want their baby anymore and they’ll give it to us.

Funny, sad, sweet, and poignant-all at the same time. Tyler and I have been so blessed and are so grateful for the three boys we have, that we want to share that love with a little girl. According to statistics adoption happens much quicker through word of mouth and other contacts. I have struggled with this concept because I would never want to feel like we are campaigning for a baby. We would however, love all the help we can get!! We are excited about what the future holds and feel that the Lord will guide us in this journey according to his will.

3 Balls, A Retired Jersey, and the Flag Lady

2010-08-08T08:38:00.000-07:00

Last night Spencer and I went to the D-Backs games. It just so happened that it was the night they retired Luis Gonzalez's jersey.

Spencer and I got to Chase Field about two hours early to watch batting practice and have some dinner. Our seats were in left field so we were able to hang out there and to try and catch home runs during practice. One of the players threw a ball to Spencer. He was so excited. A few minutes later, one came right to our seat and I caught it.

After some fun during batting practice, we went to Friday's for dinner. Just as we were finishing up, they started the jersey retirement ceremony. We went out on the Friday's balcony to watch.
Here's a picture of Spencer, seconds after they revealed Gonzalez's number 20 (it's just above Spencer's right shoulder).

Here's another one during the ceremony down at home plate.

The game started off with the D-Backs taking an early lead which they kept most of the game. Innings 5-8 were a tad boring because not much happened in the game. But, the Flag Lady kept us entertained. She was in the row in front of ours and is certifiably insane.

But, the 9th inning got fun because the Padres tied it up with a homer to left field (which just happened to go straight into my glove). Of course, I promptly threw it back and told them to go home, which encouraged cheers from the whole stadium.

Here's the video of me catching the 9th inning homer. See if you can find Spencer and I in both of the last inning home run clips.

To top it off, Chris Young nailed a homer in the 9th to win it for the D-Backs. Spencer and I had a blast.

Ashton Preschool '10

2010-08-03T10:13:00.000-07:00

Today was Ashton's first day of Preschool at Mrs. J's. He was so excited about going to school and even more excited when he found out that some of his best little buddies would be there too!

He is 4 years old and so ready for a fun year of learning.

Buzz Lightyear to the rescue!!!

Mrs. J's Preschool, getting ready to go in

Does he look Happy or what?

Ashy and Sammy

Ashton's friends Sam, and Landon

Mrs. J and Ashton

It was a great day!!!

The Talk

2010-08-02T18:23:00.000-07:00

If you’ve ever had the “sex talk” with your kids, or you still have that moment to look forward to, let me tell you how it went for us last night (hopefully they won’t kill me when they grow up and find this post).

We had the talk with our two older sons, Spencer (10 yrs old) & Kaden (8 yrs old).
It was a fun, hilarious, serious, and fascinating experience for everyone.
The night started with a great dinner prepared by Jill, complete with locally grown, fresh corn-on-the-cob. Yes, that’s relevant to the story. But no, not in the way you’re thinking. Get your mind out of the gutter.

Before we get into it, you need to understand Spencer & Kaden. Spencer is the attentive, logical, scientific, good student. He accepts what you say as gospel and tends to be very obedient. Kaden often seems to be aloof – off in his own creative world. Yet, he’s always listening. He’s the deep thinker. You wouldn’t always know it, but he has deep insight into many things.

With our medical backgrounds, Jill and I planned to approach the talk from a scientific standpoint first and then transition into a discussion of morality, chastity, and obedience. We paper-clipped the necessary diagrams, photos, and laproscopic images, made a quick game plan, and jumped right into the discussion.

Since the boys were aware of Jill’s surgery last year, we figured we’d start there. We explained that mom can’t have babies anymore because she doesn’t have a uterus. At this point, the boys were attentive and following just fine.

Then we got into how a baby grows inside the uterus. We showed diagrams of an egg coming from the ovary (from mom) and sperm (from dad) joining the egg and creating cell that splits over and over again and grows into a baby. During this time, Spencer was nodding his head, following along just fine. It all made perfect sense to him. Kaden, on the other hand, held a perplexed look on his face until finally he blurted, “Wait! How did that sperm get in there?”

It’s not necessarily a funny question, but it broke the tension Jill and I were feeling and we all ended up laughing pretty hard.
After we finished explaining how the baby grows inside the mom, along with all of the female anatomy (met with Kaden hysterically laughing – to the point of crying) it was time to explain male anatomy. More laughing and rolling on the floor.

Puberty was the next topic. They both thought growing hair in their armpits was a rather hilarious subject. I explained all the changes that their bodies would be going through including changes below the waist, acne, muscle growth, hair in various places, and a deepening voice. We spent a few minutes talking about how the development of an “Adam’s Apple” causes a guy’s voice to get deeper. Right in the middle of that discussion, Spencer blurted “Finally!!!!” Jill and I thought for sure he was excited to finally develop a deeper voice. But his sentence continued, “Finally!!!! I got the corn out of my teeth!” Jill and I busted up with nervous laughter (because the big stuff was still coming).

As we got to the point where we actually had to tell them EXACTLY how all this works, I realized that I hadn’t rehearsed that part in my head beforehand. So, I went in circles a few times trying to find the words. I could feel Jill tensing up, probably wondering why the heck I wasn’t just getting to the punch line. Well, the punch line eventually came and it was met with acceptance from Spencer and total confusion from Kaden. Don’t get me wrong, he understood completely what we had just explained. He was just mentally trying to figure out the logistics.
He abruptly stood up, thrust his hips forward, and said “So, you just stick it in there?” Again, the ice-breaker. Jill and I were immediately rolling.

Needless to say, it was a great experience for all of us (I think). Jill and I hope it’s the start of many talks with our boys and relationships where they can be 100% open and honest with us. They’re good boys. We love them to death.

Summer Time

2010-06-24T15:04:00.000-07:00

We had a great summer this year. We left the heat in Arizona and went to California to visit family. Tyler's dad turned 60 this year, so went to celebrate with them. We had a great weekend of hangin' with the family, playing in the waves, digging for sand crabs, and a beach bonfire with hot dogs and smores.

baby showers, swimming, and dinners with everyone.

Happy 60th Birthday Dad, We love you and thank you for a wonderful weekend and beautiful pictures!!

Then we went down to my parents.

Disneyland, here we come...

July 3-4th Celebration, Fireworks, fun with Grandma and Grandpa

Then we met up with Uncle Tyler, Grandma&Grandpa, Troy&Nellie, Courtney, and their kids. We went to Newport pier and played around on the rides, took a boat ride around the Island. Went to Cafe Rio for dinner, then went over to Balboa Island and got Ice cream. We walked around the island and saw all the patriotic homes all decorated not to mention the beautiful scenery.

Four little cousins all 4 years old!

The kids on the boat looking at the seals

I love this picture!! God Bless America!

Happy Birthday

What I love about being a dad

2010-06-20T18:12:00.000-07:00

For me, Father's Day has been a time for reflection. I've had an opportunity today to think about why I love being a dad. Here's the short list:

I think the best part about being a dad to my 3 boys is their mother. She's absolutely amazing, the love of my life, super hot, and she makes me better every day.
I love playing "tickle monster" with my boys.
I love it when they beat me at something (usually its a game on the Wii) and I get to see their confidence rise.
I love playing catch.
I love when they tell me they love me (unprompted).
I love camping with my boys.
I love seeing Jill's wonderful qualities come out in the boys.
I cringe when my qualities come out and I know what they're going to do next (usually it's not a good idea, but I can't blame them, they get it from me).
I love watching them learn.
I enjoy one-on-one time with each of my boys.
I love when Ashton gives me a hug - he squeezes tight.
I love watching Kaden be creative - with legos, drawing, just about anything.
I love Spencer's passion for sports. He gets into sports WAY more than I ever have.
I love watching their faith and their testimonies grow.
I love watching them explore.
I love hearing them pray. Lately Ashton prays for everything and everyone. It's so cute.
I love when they make the right choices - especially when its hard.
I love when they cuddle up next to me when we're watching a movie.
I love watching them fight over postcards when I get back from a trip.
I love them no matter what.

I am so grateful on this Father's Day for my family. I couldn't ask for a more amazing wife and better children. I am a blessed man. Happy on Father's Day.

At Preschool Ashton answered questions about his daddy and here is what he said. This was part of his Father's day gift...

Spencer's 10

2010-06-01T17:29:00.000-07:00

My oldest boy is 10 years old today!! Where has the time gone. I could not possibly be old enough to have a ten year old. That means I am getting OLD! I still remember the day he was born like it was yesterday. Kissing those precious soft cheeks just seconds after he entered this world. Leaving our Father in Heaven, knowing he is trusting me and Tyler to raise this spirit in righteousness and love. Wow, what an honor! We have seen it as truly that. Spencer is a special spirit, a strong spirit, who earnestly tries to do what is right. He chooses to honor his parents and his Heavenly Father. I love the moments when he doesn't know I'm watching, but he chooses the right anyway. I will find him in the early morning or late at night reading his scriptures or on his knees saying his prayers, or helping a brother in time of need. It just melts my heart...he is just SO good! Of course he has his moments of arguing with his brothers, or not wanting to do what is asked of him, but at the end of the day he choose to follow his Father in Heaven. After all he is just a child, My Child and I love him to pieces and could not be more proud!!

We took Spencer and his friend to BJ's for dinner and then we were off to the batting cage!!

The boys of course wanted in on the action

Then we came back for cake and ice cream

Happy Birthday Spencer!!

A Bear is in the house

2010-05-27T17:22:00.000-07:00

Spencer earned his Bear in Scouts, and as a little tradition he had to "Wrestle the Bear" to get his award hidden in the Bear den. The dad's pretend to be the bear and the kids have such a great time wrestling for their award.

As you can see he came out with a piece of the Bear!!

Preschool Graduation 2010

2010-05-26T17:04:00.000-07:00

Ashton went to preschool this year at Mrs. Stewart's home. He had a great time learning all kinds of new things including how to write his name and letters. At the end of the year they had a graduation, so here is the little graduate:

Can he please just stay this age. I love you Ashton, I am so proud of you!!

Father and Son's Camp out

2010-05-21T14:05:00.000-07:00

Daddy and the Boys weekend at Long Valley Camp ground owned by the church.

The boys love to carve things out of wood

Camping, fishing, hiking...the boys were in heaven

Ashton on the farm

2010-05-14T08:40:00.000-07:00

Ashton's Preschool class took a field trip to Marley Farm. He had such a blast. He loved feeding and petting the animals.

Yes, my little boy was the ONLY BOY in the class! There were a couple more boys, but they moved away. I don't know that he even noticed. He just loves playing with anyone who will play with him.

There was a zonkey (donkey and zebra mix) that was wanting all the attention. He would bang his back legs against the iron fence and the whole place would shake and echo! The kids got such a kick out of it. Thanks Mrs. Stewart

Spencer

2010-05-13T07:56:00.000-07:00

Spencer's 4th grade project was the state of Missouri. He had to do this all by himself!! It was a project they did 98% of it at school, so parents could not help. I was so proud of him. He worked so hard on this and it was ALL him. I have to admit he has better handwriting then I do. He also had to dress up like one of the people he researched, so of course my baseball fan dressed up as a Cardinal baseball player!

Then that night he was in the 4th grade play.

He was a 50's jock...SO CUTE!!

Love you Spence!!!

Student Council Secretary

2010-05-10T13:43:00.000-07:00

Spencer wanted to run for 5th grade Student Council Secretary. He had been on student council as a representative for his 4th grade class and loved it. He decided this year to go bigger and next year he wants to run for President.
We picked the kids up from school early Friday and headed up to Gila Valley to see the Temple open house. As we are in the car Spencer tells us he plans on running for Secretary and has to write and give a speech on Tuesday to the faculty and student body. So on our ride home Saturday from the Gila Valley, we had 3 hours to kill and he worked on his speech. He would write a little piece and then ask our advice, and then work on a little more and so on until he was complete.    We had him read it over and over several times in the car on the way home because it had to be memorized. We got home and he didn't look at it much more until Monday morning when I had him read it to me once just for practice. I told him he needed to come home today and really work on memorizing his speech so he would be ready for Tomorrow.
I took them to school and then came to pick them up at the end of the day and Kaden was the only one out waiting for me. My heart dropped, where is Spencer? I had this sick feeling they had them do their speeches a day early. I parked the car and went in looking for Spencer.   The teacher said," They made an announcement at the end of the day Friday telling the students that EVERYONE would be doing their speeches on Monday instead of Tuesday." Well, if you remember, we picked the kids up early Friday and NEVER got that message. I was dying. The teacher said, "it's okay, Spencer said he had it memorized and he is ready." I said, "can I talk to him before he does his speech ?" She sent me down the hall where Spencer was coming toward me CALM as can be! I said, "Spence, are you ready for this?" He replied, "Mom, I am totally fine. I rewrote my speech this morning in class and I know it." I said, "okay, can you say it to me once before going in there?" He recited his speech and I was left speechless! I was a very proud and humbled mother all in one moment. I was so proud of him for having the courage to go out for this, especially without having his speech in hand. It was a humbling experience for me to trust in him. He is a smart boy and confident enough in himself to know...he was FINE!

Here is the speech that voted him Student Council Secretary:
       During Elementary school is when children begin to develop the habits and skills that will help them succeed throughout the rest of their lives. The Student Council's job is to help the teachers and faculty organize and carry out the activities that will help the students develop the character traits that this school has defined. Student Council can't be effective without a good Secretary who is organized, disciplined, responsible, proactive, and takes initiative. As a strait A student, I have proven to work hard and help others a long the way. My teacher and all those who have worked with me can tell you that I am disciplined and focused at all times.
As the Student Council Secretary, I will use the talents given to me to make sure that the minutes are complete and understandable, the meetings run efficiently, and most of all, that the students benefit from the council's activities. Don't hesitate to check my references, run a background check, or call my mommy.
Thank you.

Mother's Day

2010-05-09T23:21:00.000-07:00

There are many things I could say about why I love being a mother on Mother's Day, but I think my children summed it up best in these drawings and projects from school. Basically what I'm saying is, the reason I love being a Mother is THEM!! They make each day brighter, fill it with new experiences and challenges we face together. And those laughs, those infectious little laughs!! They make me a better person and inspire me to be better, for them. I love them with all my heart. I thank my husband for being the Best most Awesomest man to help bring these precious spirits to our home. I am a blessed Mother...

Each of these cards had a beautiful pin at the bottom, they had made themselves.

It was an honor for me to wear them to church!

Does it get any better!!

Gila Valley Temple

2010-05-09T16:55:00.000-07:00

We took a little road trip this weekend to the Gila Valley Temple in Arizona. It is a 3 hour drive from our house, so Tyler decided we would make a little trip out of it. So we took the boys out of school early and headed up.

We got to the temple and began to make our way in the front doors when Ashton stopped dead in his tracks and started to cry. They had volunteers out front, helping put on big white plastic slippers over our shoes to keep the temple floors clean! Well, Ashton wanted nothing to do with those "White things." So Tyler picked him up and carried him through. Well after we had been on the tour for about 5 minutes Ashton says, "I don't like going to the temple. It takes to long and you look funny in those white things. Let's just go back to the hotel and swim, Okay daddy."

So maybe Ashy wasn't so thrilled about the idea, but for everyone else it was truly a Wonderful experience and memory. All I can say is WOW!! When you walk through those halls and stand in Holy places, you can't help but be overwhelmed and grateful. Even though it is not yet dedicated, the spirit is still there so strong. I loved hearing about the details, how and why they were selected for that temple. That each room is brighter, a little higher, ending in the unbelievable Celestial room. This was such a great opportunity to share with the boys the importance of temple and see where we were married and sealed together for time and all eternity. They looked through the mirrors and loved what they saw. When we got back to the hotel I had the boys write down in their journal their experience, and how they felt in the temple. We ate at a little Mexican restaurant there in Safford, and then came back and made Ashy happy by going swimming!!

What a great weekend, only to be topped off with Mother's Day and all the fun that comes with it! I love my family and I am so blessed and grateful to each and everyone of them. They're what I live for and love them more each day!!

For Time and ALL Eternity

Babies...babies!!

2010-05-09T12:44:00.000-07:00

What better way to spend a Mother's Day, then to be a mommy for the first time!! I love all these girls so much and they have made the last two months so much fun and exciting!

Congratulations!!!

Lindsay and Grant had Capri on March 8th

Alex and Ben had Felicity on May 7th

Jared and Jenna had Londyn on May 10th

I am so excited for you all and can't wait to hold all these sweet little girls!

I love you and Happy Mother's day!!

Chandler Stake Fair

2010-05-08T23:32:00.000-07:00

Our Stake every year puts on a Fair with hot dogs, drinks, snow cones, dessert, and bounce houses. They also set up wood booths that people volunteer to work in doing a number of games and fun things. The kids had a blast!! They fished and did the ring toss at which Ashton won a 2liter bottle of Root Beer, he was on cloud nine. They had a basketball toss, football throw, candy land musical chairs, Plinko, face painting, popcorn, darts, and many more!! It was so much fun and we had a great time together as a family.

Academic Night

2010-05-04T22:43:00.000-07:00

At the school the boys are attending they have a "Academic Night" honoring all the kids from 4-6th grade who have received straight "A's" all year. It is a special Principal's award called the "Golden Scholar." Spencer was honored in this and we are so proud of him for working hard and being disciplined in his efforts at school.

Mr. Hallock...Principal

Receiving his award and pin

Mrs. Dewhirst...4th grade teacher

Very Proud Mom and Dad!!!!

Let's Play Music-piano recital

2010-05-03T22:24:00.000-07:00

Spencer and Kaden have been doing a music program called "Let's Play Music" that his Amazing cousin Shelle developed. The final project is to compose their own piece of music and play it in a recital. The boys did fabulous. Spencer's was named "Land of the Lost" and Kaden's was named "Legos." It has been so fun to watch these boys progress year after year and learn notes, theory, how to read music, rythm, and ultimately play the piano...all while having fun with music!!

Mrs. Steere was their teacher

The boys received a trophy for their hard work and a nice copy of their song they composed.

Love this little guy!!

2010-05-01T18:36:00.000-07:00

Just some random thoughts:

Ashton told me today that they were learning about animals and reptiles in preschool. He said," some babies come from eggs and some from mommies. Like daddy Shamu takes his feathers and puts the baby in the mommy Shamu's tummy, then POOF...the baby comes out!" I said, "Ashton, Shamu doesn't have feathers." He said, " I mean... his flippers" If it were only that easy...LOVE HIM!! If only I could keep him this innocent :)

For family home evening we decided to make a slurpee run to Circle K...via our bikes and scooters. While we were outside sitting on a curb drinking away, Ashton asked, "Daddy, where is your helmet?" Tyler replied, " I forgot it at home." Ashton, "Daddy, Heavenly Father is going to be MAAAD at you!"

The boys were getting out of the car today at school:
Mom: Have a good day boys, I love you...remember to Choose the Right!
Ashton: And Don't give up!!

April 2010

2010-04-30T23:58:00.000-07:00

April has been a great and busy month for our family, a look back...

I spoke on the Atonement at our Relief Society night
The Primary had a wonderful Easter egg hunt and breakfast
Conference was Amazing, as always!! The boys were really good and listened
Easter, Easter bunny, eggs, chocolate, candy, play
Grandpa Garns came to visit
Had a BBQ with our neighbors
The Scorpion man is back in our lives...FULL FORCE
Taught YW, Go to mutual
Tyler teaches, and is out with the Missionaries every Wednesday night as the ward mission leader
Scouts, pack meeting
Made cookies
Made cupcakes
Piano, Piano recital. The boys did an Awesome job. They each had to compose their own piece to play. Kaden's was called "Legos" and Spencer's was "The Land of the Lost"
Took a trip with the YW in our ward to the new Gila Valley Temple open house. What a special experience for the girls!!
Spencer received the Gilbert Golden Scholar award from the principal for straight "A's" and is being honored in a ceremony
Tyler is working, working, working a 21 city tour. A new city each month! We love him and appreciate all he does for our family!!
The kids have been livin' it up outside, Playing, riding bikes, scooters, catch, football, you name it, because it will all end here very shortly
And yes, we went to the ZOO!!

And our new found place "Bahama Bucks"

Gila Valley Temple
NO, we DID NOT wear Jeans into the Temple. This was taken the next day :)

Boys Camp Out!!

2010-04-23T08:59:00.000-07:00

The boys had a bonding weekend with our friends the Stanley's.

They went about 2 hours away to Long Valley to camp, and be BOYS!!

What better way to start off the night then a giant fire! When the boys got to the camp it was much colder then they had anticipated, and it had just rained. So not only was it cold, but wet and muddy too!!

(sounds like So much FUN!)

This is the boys showing you how muddy their feet were

Ashton and Sam checked out!

When they awoke in the morning they found this...Frost all over everything!

The boys were not about to let the cold spoil their fun!!

My little boy

Of course we have sticks and are playing in the dirt...Yea for camping and no mom to keep us clean!

Oh Man, I still can't play with guns...

I think by the look on their faces they had a pretty fun time!

Easter

2010-04-04T23:53:00.000-07:00

The boys had so much fun dying Easter eggs and the egg hunt in our neighborhood. The Easter bunny found us, but the boys had to look extra hard this year. We are so grateful for the Easter season and the reminder of why we celebrate it...Our Savior Jesus Christ

The Primary had a Easter egg hunt and a breakfast for the kids

Egg hunt at the park

The Easter bunny!!!

Spencer's 4th grade trip to Grand Canyon

2010-03-25T22:55:00.000-07:00

Tyler and Spencer left at 4am on the 25th of March to go on a trip to the Grand Canyon with the 4th grade. Spencer was talking about this trip for weeks leading up to it and several after. He got to ride on a bus, take a train, sleep in a cabin, hike in the snow, be ALL BOY with his dad and the 4th grade for a couple days. What more could you ask for in a 9yr. olds eyes??

Spring Break 2010

2010-03-13T22:15:00.000-08:00

We went to California for Spring Break and got together with our cousins at Disneyland!! We had a great time and were sad to come home. The kids love playing together and have such a fun time. We miss and love you all.

Ashton Uno

2010-03-01T12:51:00.000-08:00

Ashton loved watching the Olympics. His favorite event was the speed skating, and watching Apolo Ohno. Should I be a little concerned that for the last two days all he wants to do is pretend to skate around the kitchen with his glasses on and refer to himself as Ashton Uno... so cute!!

Pinewood Derby Time

2010-02-28T16:06:00.000-08:00

Spencer and Kaden raced their cars in the ward Pinewood Derby on Saturday and we had two very happy boys. After last year coming in next to last, we prepared the boys emotionally a little better this year. To our surprise we did GREAT!!!

Spencer took 1st and Kaden took 3rd

Spencer made a race car and Kaden made a truck with a lego bed and a lego driver. It was pretty creative. When they went to weigh in and Kaden was just a little over, he just took off a lego and he was good to go.

After the ward competition the 1st, 2nd, and 3rd went on to the Stake finals that night.

There were 22 boys that entered cars and Spencer came in 8th and Kaden 10th. They were pretty proud of themselves, don't forget dad, for without him it would have fallen in my lap and the boys would have been racing a rectangular brick of wood with wheels. Thank heavens for daddy!!!

Kauai 2010

2010-02-07T20:56:00.000-08:00

Last week we went to Kauai for the 2010 Infusionsoft Presiden't Club trip. It was AWESOME! We had a great time. We stayed at the Grand Hyatt in Poipu Beach. Since Tyler rented a car to go surfing, we toured all over the island. We went whale watching, we went to Spouting Horn, to the Glass Beach, the North Shore, and many other cool places. In the slideshow you'll see pictures from Hanalei Bay and Polihale - two places Tyler went surfing. You'll also see many pictures in and around our amazing hotel. Enjoy!

If you want to watch the slideshow with bigger pictures and captions, click here.

Ashton's 4th Birthday!!

2010-01-25T17:40:00.000-08:00

Ashton turned 4 years old today!!
We started the day off at his favorite park to play

It was also Grandpa Meldrum's Birthday to and he was in town, so the two of them decided to go to their favorite Cafe Rio for lunch

When the boys got home from school it was present and cake time!!

Happy Birthday Ashton!!! You make our whole family smile...We love you!!

Ashton's 4yrs old

2010-01-25T09:42:00.000-08:00

I just love ALL of these, and I can't believe my baby is 4 and growing up so fast!

I love you Ashton

Phoenix Zoo

2010-01-15T17:02:00.000-08:00

We took the boys to the Phoenix Zoo.
Ashton loved being with all the animals!!

Kaden in the tree

The monkeys...We got right in with them while they were running and jumping next to us.

Ashton and the Black bear

These Turtles were HUGE!! Like 600 lbs

This big open area behind Ashton and I was filled with giraffes, gazelle, bulls, and ostriches just roaming all over for us to view.

We went up on this deck that over looked the giraffes and we got to feed them food. The boys each fed them cookies and got to pet them.

We had a great day at the zoo. We had to do this in the winter when the animals are out, because shortly here it will feel like summer and they will go into hiding!

Christmas 2009

2009-12-25T21:36:00.000-08:00

Christmas Eve Santa brought our pj's.
The boys on the stairs Christmas morning

Santa came to visit our house

After we opened up our gifts here in Arizona we headed to Tyler's parents house on Christmas day in California. We had such a great vacation. We played, the boys surfed, and bowled, and played some more

At Grandma and Grandpa Garns house Christmas Day. All the cousins just opened gifts from each other

We went to our favorite Wood Ranch one night for dinner!!!

Grant and Linny, Jenna and Jared and the boys

New Year's Eve 2009

My little cow boy

Our new little family...doesn't she just fit right in!!!

Great grandma White, Grandma, and Berlynn

Great Grandpa and Grandma getting a little crazy New Year's Eve

The count down begins....

Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!!! We loved getting together with our family and enjoying this special time of year.

Cruise the Caribbean 2009

2009-12-14T15:21:00.000-08:00

Tyler was speaking at an event that just happened to be on a cruise ship sailing through the Caribbean, so we just happened to come along...yeah US!!!
The kids had NO idea. Little by little we gave them clues as to what was to come and they just kept getting more and more excited. We had promised the kids if we read the scriptures every day for the whole year and didn't miss we would take a trip somewhere because all the kids wanted to do was go on an airplane. We have this little airport by our house that had flights to random places for like $29 to $39 a person, so we thought...sweet, we can do this! Then suddenly this opportunity of a life time came up, and we just could pass it up! (this trip far exceeded what Tyler and I had planned)

The two older boys had been on a plane when they were little, but didn't remember it. Ashton has not. So needless to say they were jumping for joy when they found out they were going on a plane. This was at Phoenix Airport right before we left.

The boys each had their own little back pack with activities for the plane and headphones for movie time, and of course snacks!!
Here is our plane...

I was sitting next to Spencer as we took off and it is a moment I will never forget!! He was so excited he almost came out of his seat. He sat there on the edge of his seat with both hands grasping the edge of the armrest looking out the window with a smile bigger then life. It grew even bigger as we raced down the runway and up into the air. He was loving it!! I looked over at Kaden and Ashton and you could see the same excitement beaming from within! I loved watching every minute.

We arrived in Florida the night before and stayed in a hotel, then got up the next morning and headed off to the boat. We departed from Miami on Royal Caribbean cruise line. Our ship was called Majesty of the Seas.
This huge gingerbread house was right in the center of the ship right as we walked on.

This was one of the rooms. It had 2 twin beds and a bunk bead that pulled down. The kids thought it was so cool.
This was right before the ship departed

The first stop was Nassau, where we explored the island and the amazing hotel Atlantis

This is part of an enormous aquarium in the hotel and these fish followed every move the boys made.

Then we went and played on the beach. Our Taxi driver hit a police man's car, so needless to say that delayed our trip a little.

Ashton and Kaden were building a sand castle then decided they wanted to be buried and look like pyramids.

We could get used to this beautiful place.

This was Ashton before dinner.....next is Ashton after dinner...

Me and my Amazing husband

Our next stop was Coco Cay where the boys again played on the beach and swam in the beautiful water and saw all kinds of fish.

Our home for a week

Because it was the week before Christmas it was fitting to have a visit by the big man himself...Santa, and we sang songs and enjoyed the night.

The boys climbed the rock wall on the ship right in the middle of the ocean

Next stop was Key West where we explored this quaint little town.

Captain Ashton

These were a few of the men Tyler hung out with all week

The boys loved all the little animals they would leave in our rooms every night.
Then sadly it was time to say good bye to all you can eat food, drinks, ice cream, and of course the scenery...AMAZING
When we asked Ashton what was his favorite part of the trip he said, " We got to go on 3 planes, a taxi, a bus, a shovel (shuttle), banana boat, and 3 boats"

We had such a wonderful time together as a family...memories...PRICELESS

Kaden's 8th Birthday

2009-11-30T13:23:00.000-08:00

I can't believe he is really 8years old! I remember last year at Spencer's baptism thinking...this can't be, he can't be this old. Well here we are again.
Kaden was so excited for his Baptism.
We were in California for Thanksgiving and just decided that we would baptize him while we were there with all our family close by. So Monday on his Birthday he was Baptized. He told me later, "mom, I'm glad I got to get baptized on my birthday, that way I will always remember the day."

We are so proud of you Kaden and Love you tons and tons!!!

Just one good picture would be nice

Grandpa Garns made Kaden this Amazing picture. Kaden told grandpa that he wanted a picture of the knight "kneeling down to him!"

Grandpa and Grandma Garns

Uncle Scott and Aunt Lisa...Thanks so much for coming!!

Great Grandpa and Grandma White

Grandpa and Grandma Meldrum

Daddy and Me on my Special Day!!

The cousins
My Birthday Celebration

Thank you all for coming to his Baptism and for those of you who helped out with the program, we can't thank you enough. Kaden planned the day the way he wanted it to go :) and he was so glad everyone was there
We love you all

Thanksgiving '09

2009-11-26T12:50:00.000-08:00

Thanksgiving day

Janelle and Troy

Jeremy and Courtney

Great Grandma and Grandpa White gave the kids gifts from their trip.

We all went down to Old Town Temecula and waited for Santa to make his arrival

Ashton told me he was being one of Santa's reindeer!
Then we went back to Mom and Dad's and did a Thanksgiving Christmas

The kids made ornaments

played with cousins and had a great time!

We are so grateful for Family, our Savior, and the opportunity to reflect on this Special day!!

Gilbert Days and a little Bobcat

2009-11-11T12:35:00.000-08:00

Kaden is a new little cub scout and he has already earned his Bobcat!!
He has been so excited to go to scouts with Spencer...Awesome job Kaden

Infusionsoft was in the Gilbert Days Parade. So Tyler and the boys were on the float playing their guitars and jamin' to the music.

What would a parade be without horses and fire trucks...

Halloween '09

2009-10-31T15:49:00.000-07:00

Halloween...We started at the Stanley's house for a Halloween Party. The kids had such a blast. It was a great start to a fabulous night.

Ashton gave up very quickly on the "No Hands Rule"

My little soccer player and Harry Potters/ one Ron

Happy Halloween!!!!

Fall Fun

2009-10-26T15:07:00.000-07:00

It was so fun to work in the kids class and see Ashton at his Halloween Party.
Ashton and his buddy Cooper

Kaden's Pumpkin

Tyler asked me if I was letting Ashton bedazzle his pumpkin to make up for the fact that we have 3 boys...

carving pumpkins

Pumpkin Patch

Ward trunk or treat

We had a soccer player and Two Harry Potters until Kaden decided he wanted to be Ron

U2 Concert

2009-10-21T13:39:00.000-07:00

Tyler and I went to the U2 Concert for his Birthday!!

This was seriously the coolest stage ever!!
Awesome Concert

We had such a great time. When we were walking back to our car Tyler leaned over and said, "All spiritual and important things aside...like our marriage and the birth of our children- that was the BEST day of my life!! I was so glad he had such a great time. I know he has wanted to see them in concert since before we were married. Love you babe!!

Fall Break '09

2009-10-20T13:14:00.000-07:00

Fall Break wouldn't be the same if we were not at Disneyland!!

What cute little cousins

Grandma and Addie

Kaden and Kenzie having fun in "their world"

Mommy and the boys

Trick or Treat

Oh Man...

2009-10-19T21:53:00.000-07:00

The other day Kaden and my mom were talking about his birthday, the conversation went a little something like this:

Grandma: "Kaden, would you rather have a toy for your birthday or money?"
Kaden: immediately replies..."Money!!"
Grandma: "Ok"
Kaden: "Grandma, maybe I would rather have a toy for my birthday. If you give me money then I have to pay tithing on it."
Grandma: "Kaden, what if I give you a little extra to cover what you would pay in tithing."

Kaden's eyes widened. Then Spencer who just happened to be in the room with them pipes up..."Grandma then he will just have to pay more tithing!" (gotta love big brothers...always looking out for you)

Catching up!

2009-10-06T12:38:00.000-07:00

Kaden's 2nd grade play "Go Fish" He was one of the sharks. He didn't end up singing, but he did have a good speaking part. He did a great job and loved it!

Spencer borrowed a hat to join in the fun. Ashton was afraid of the sharks

What a cute little Mako shark he made

This is the coveted "Super Star" that all the kids get when they can write their name All By Themselves. He was so excited, and came running out to show me his Super Star!

Ashton was very proud of his animals in their "lyon" He won't say the word "Line" He thinks it is "lyon" funny kid.

Ashton's preschool took a field trip to the Dentist. The kids loved all the little goodies...toothbrush, toothpaste, hooray!!

Happy Birthday Tyler!!
he turned 32

So excited...I got Tyler tickets to see U2 in concert. He has wanted to go ever since we got married. U2 and banana cream pie, he was a happy man. I love you tons!!

Holes?

2009-09-30T22:42:00.000-07:00

Okay, I know this is probably not the most appropriate thing to blog about, but it is just cracking me up.

Tonight the boys were getting out of the shower when all the sudden Ashton (3yrs) gets this very worried tone in his voice and says, "Kaden what happened? You have a hole in your bummy." Kaden laughs and says, "Ashy, you have a hole in your bummy too, everyone does." Ashton breaks out into tears and starts crying. "Mommy, I don't want to have a hole in me, MAKE IT GO AWAY!" The boys and I have lost it and are laughing while this poor boy continued to be so disturbed. He kept looking over his shoulder behind him, puzzled at why he couldn't see it. It was like a dog doing circles round and round before it goes to sleep. We had a little talk and I think he is okay with it now, but the rest of the night he kept saying peoples names and asking if they had holes too.

Like I said, not the most appropriate topic, but Oh, the things that come out of this child's mouth just need to be remembered.

Proud Wife and Mom

2009-09-11T23:02:00.000-07:00

This last week has been very rewarding for me as a wife and mother, although sadly it has nothing to do with me, just an amazing husband and children.

Thursday, Spencer came home and said, "Mom, I want to try out for student council. I have to write a paragraph on why I think the students should pick me. I have to turn it in on Monday." I said okay we will work on it this weekend. (by the way, there was no note sent home telling me about this ) Well, Friday I pick him up from school and he jumps in the car and says, "Mom, I'm on student council!!" (still no note). I of course am quite shocked and start asking a number of questions, one being "what about the paper you had to write?" He replied by saying, " Oh, my teacher told me the wrong day and it was really due today, so I stayed in at recess and wrote it." Still a little in shock I said, "what did you say?" Spencer said back, " I don't remember, all good stuff though. The kids liked mine the best and they voted me to be the representative for 4th grade. I have my first meeting on Tuesday. I have to be at school at 8am." (still waiting for a note, something...) A little unsure of how this was going to play out. I still hadn't heard anything from the school about him winning. Did he just think he had won? No note, news...who knows? He went to school Tuesday morning and sure enough he had won, and was supposed to be there. WOW!! I was so proud of him to have the courage to run for office. He just started a brand new school this year and I thought he would be a little nervous, not knowing anyone, but NO! I am so grateful he has the confidence to step out of his comfort zone and do something new. What this little guy lacks in height, he sure makes up for in courage!! I love you Spencer and I hope you never lose that spark and drive for life.

Friday, Ashton went to preschool and his teacher pulled me aside and said, "look what Ashton did?" She said, "I started to write the letter "A" and then I walked away to help some one and I came back to this." He wrote his name all by himself. It was a little crazy, but you could totally make out his name. He is 3 and has only been in preschool since August. I was pretty impressed. He was so proud of himself. He keeps telling me, "mom, I'm the only one in my class that has a big "A". Ashton, I love your sweet spirit. I tell Tyler all the time I wish I could strap a video camera to him to capture all his hilarious moments. I will have to post some of those later.

Monday, Kaden came home and said, "mom, I tried out for a solo in our 2nd grade musical." Again in shock, I said "YOU DID, what did you sing?" He said, " just a song from the play." Spencer chimes in with, "You know a solo means you have to sing in front of the WHOLE school?" Kaden says, "Yea, I know." (For those of you who don't know...WE DON'T SING). With great admiration I said, "Kaden, that is awesome. I am so proud of you." Although he appears to be the life of the party on the outside, he actually has a very tender heart and is a little more shy when it come to doing things in public by himself. I was excited to see him stepping, or leaping rather, out of his comfort zone. You rock little man! Kaden, You make me laugh everyday and I love you!

Tuesday, Tyler was up all night writing an ebook for his OVER EXPOSURE site and then released it the next morning. He did such a wonderful job and I am so proud of him. I am constantly amazed at all he can juggle in that brain of his and still function. He is a great writer and knows how to capture his audience. He works so hard for our family, spending countless hours with little or no sleep. I want him to know he is the most A*Mazing husband and father ever!! I love you!

As a mother I have days, weeks... when I question how I'm raising my children. "Am I doing this right, or that right? Am I spending enough time with each one? Am I teaching them all they need to survive in this crazy world? Then I wonder, " is any of what I'm teaching sinking in?"
This last week was a little testament to me that maybe...it is. It is my privilege and honor to have these 3 boys call me "Mom."

School Time

2009-08-10T13:04:00.000-07:00

All ready for school!
Spencer is starting 4th grade this year and Kaden is in 2nd
They are both so handsome and I am proud of all they have accomplished.
I love you two!!

We went to the kids school a few days before to meet their teachers and see their classrooms.

Ashton's 1st day of school

2009-08-05T12:28:00.000-07:00

Ashton started his first day of Preschool today. He was so excited to be big like the boys. He filled his backpack with a book, a drink and bagel, (for snack time) and of course he had to have a cold pack. He told me, "mommy, I want my backpack heavy like the boys."

He was all smiles until we got inside the front door of school, and then he wanted to bolt for the door. His teacher Mrs. Stewart was so great with him and they played with dinosaurs as I quickly made an exit for the door. A little apprehensive about how he would do on his first day alone, I waited for a phone call...and nothing!
When I went to pick him up he was beaming from ear to ear and came running out telling me how much fun school was.
The next day of school we drove up to her house and he said to me, " Mommy, I do it all by myself!!" He wanted to get out of the car all by himself and go running into school alone.

How quickly they grow up and become independent. It is so sweet and yet a little sad to watch him grow up. I know it is my last time doing all these mile stones and I am trying to engrave them all in my brain. I have to say it is priceless to watch him head off into school. His little legs are running, backpack bouncing, and he is waving and smiling all the way to the door.
I love it and I love you Ashy!!

Disneyland...Beach...San Diego...SUMMER!!

2009-08-02T12:17:00.000-07:00

We went to California for about 6 weeks because I had to have a surgeon fix what the Doctor here did wrong, so we made a little vacation out of it.

Hanging out in San Diego

The boys loved these swings made out of tires

Huntington Beach with Tyler's family

Love these Boys!!!

Little buddies--Dawson, Spencer, Lake

Oceanside Beach

Disneyland

Ashton and I went on a boat ride around the pirate island and the whole time he was telling me about when he was a Pirate. 'Mommy, when I was a pirate this was my Island and my ship. I would fight the bad guys with my sword." "Mommy, when I was big like you I was a pirate and I fight."

waiting for the fireworks to start

We had such a great time this summer in California, even though I had to have surgery again. At least we were out of the HEAT here for a little while, but we sure missed Daddy.

4th of July and summer fun

2009-07-04T22:16:00.000-07:00

Bring on the Water...it's summer time!!

Cousins playing and having fun

4th of July in Old Town

We took the kids to the parade in Temecula and they had a blast waving their flags, seeing the horses, old cars, and fire trucks.

This was my favorite moment. Everyone had their hands over their heart listening to the Star Spangled Banner and Ashton was saluting, just like the men in uniform. It was very sweet!

We are so grateful to live in a land where we are free!!
In God We Trust

10 Year Anniversary!!!

2009-06-26T11:59:00.000-07:00

We went to Cancun on our Honeymoon and loved every minute! Tyler surprised me with a trip back to paradise for our 10 year Anniversary!!

Our boat ride and the view from our hotel window

Royal Solaris Cancun, Mexico
This was our home for a few days...Not too shabby

We went to a wild animal park/nature aquarium called Xcaret.
We were walking along a path and this was just sitting on the side of the road
there weren't any gates and wall keeping the animals fenced in. They just roamed around...pretty cool!

riding a turtle

These things are huge!! An actual turtle shell and turtle. He reminded me of Crush from Nemo.

The water is crystal clear, the sand is white and feels like powder, and could it get any more tropical and humid? A far cry from our dry desert in Arizona!

There are old ancient ruins all over Cancun

This picture actually was taken straight, the house is just that slanted. For once we felt Tall!

This part of the Island is so amazing. There is an underground tunnel that is filled with water and it runs for over a mile through the park. We swam and snorkeled through the tunnel and saw all kinds of fish.

This is a church in the park

We watched a show that night in a huge theater reenacting ancient customs, traditions, and games. Everyone was given a little candle and then they came and lit the wicks so the whole theater had these little lights.

This was the last day of our vacation, our actual Anniversary date. It was pretty crazy to think back and realize we were here 10 years ago, and how far we have come. One incredible journey with my best friend, with an eternity of fun times to come. Ty, I love you tons!! You are the BEST!

Motocross

2009-06-09T15:38:00.001-07:00

Sunday after church we sat the kids down to tell them we wanted to set some goals and values for our family. We wanted to have a family Mission statement and Motto to live by. This became somewhat of a serious discussion that the two older boys were totally involved. Ashton left the room for a few minutes when all the sudden we heard the back door shut and he came running into the family room, took this stance and said, "Motocross".
We of course all busted up laughing and our serious moment was GONE!
He then wanted us to play "Motocross" Duck, Duck, Goose. He had new rules for the game too. We had to sit in a circle and one person would walk around the circle and tap everyone on the head-not saying anything. Then when you came to the person you wanted to tap you say "Motocross" Jump up and run not only in a circle, but all the way around the kitchen Island, back to the family room and sit down, before you were tagged. He was the hit of the night and so proud of himself.

We did actually get something accomplished

The Garns Family Mission Statement

We promise to be Grateful, Smart, Clean, True, Humble, and Prayerful.
We strive to be worthy to serve a Mission, receive Priesthood and Temple blessings, and treat others with Respect. We talk of Christ, We rejoice in Christ, and We preach of Christ, that we may live together as an Eternal Family.

Our Motto: Serve with Strength, Honor, and Love

Stanger Family Reunion 2009

2009-06-07T21:37:00.000-07:00

We gathered in St. George, Utah for a family reunion on my mom's side over Memorial Day weekend. It was so fun to see family we've not seen in a long time or had never met. We had a great weekend and wonderful Grandparents to thank for making it happen. We love you!

This is the group, or at least a good majority who were able to come.

The People responsible for creating the bunch.

Uncle Chuck(Grandma's brother and his wife El),Uncle Maynard, Grandpa Dovell
Aunt Rula(Grandma's sister), Aunt Orvilla(Grandma's sister), Grandma Pamela Joyce

Our side of the family

Jeremy, Courtney, Dawson, MacKenzie, Addelynn, and Berlynn

Troy, Janelle, Max, and Adam

My Grandma Afton Meldrum (My dad's mom)
She lives just down the street so we visited her while we were in town.

On Sunday we had this wonderful plan to try and keep the Sabbath Holy, SO what better way then to go take a walk around the temple and visitors center.
I went to take a picture of the kids on the St. George Temple steps and Kaden slipped and cracked his front tooth, of course it had to be a permanent one. He also split his lip open, so he's not smiling because everytime he opened his mouth to smile his lip opened back up and blood...

Dawson and Spencer

All these kids were so cute. They were playing with toy animals, gathering them food, water, and shelter. It was very sweet and fun to watch them all play together so well.

Ashton is batting balloon style

We all went to the water park and the kids had a blast. I love this picture. I just wish Ashton would have joined in, but he was being a momma's boy

Put him on a swing and he was in seventh heaven
I love this of the 3 boys

We went rock climbing there too, and it was a huge hit!!

Kaden and Spencer all strapped up ready to climb

They both climbed all the way to the top and rang the bell!

Ashton was even a part of it too. He thought he was SO COOL, and just like the "Big Kids"

Tyler wasn't going to miss out on the fun

On Memorial Day we took the kids over to the Cemetery to teach them a little bit about the significance of that day.

Spencer and Kaden stood there nicely and let me take a picture, not touching anything around them. Then Ashton gets up and wants his own picture and does he stand there nicely...NO, if you look closely he has his hand on the trigger of the gun on the statue.

I loved this monument and memorial that was displayed for all those who did not have a head stone. It's messege rings true and makes you PROUD to be an AMERICAN!!

Having 3 boys is a little scary when I think that they could possibly have to go to war one day. I hope that day never comes, but standing there reading all these names of men who died so that we might be free is very humbling.

Ashton wanted his picture taken by all the flags. He would go from one head stone to the next saying "Mommy take my picture by this one" I just kept hoping the families of them were not around.

On our way home we went through Lake Mead and over the Hoover Dam. They are building an unbelieveable structure. This huge arch will support a road that will eventually run on top. It is just massive, and pretty cool!

Maui-2009

2009-06-04T21:51:00.001-07:00

The end of May Tyler and I went on an awards trip with Infusionsoft. It was supposed to be held in Puerto Vallarta, but due to the swine flu we ended up in Maui...not a bad trade off!

This was the first night we arrived at the welcome dinner. Coming from Arizona to this beautiful sunset...A*MAZING!!

This is where we ate breakfast every morning, the other side looked out on to the ocean. There were huge colorful fish in this pond.

One night we went to dinner at the Pineapple Grill with some friends and family from work.
We had such a great time!

We hung out by the pool, had yummy Lava flow drinks, watched unbelievable sunsets, and enjoyed wonderful company.

This was our favorite spot at the pool. Tyler was a reading machine and caused quite a stir. He would walk around the pool holding his book up out of the water, reading away. We heard from several random people at dinner about "the pool reader guy" apparently they got a kick out of it. He does look pretty hot though-love you babe

On Friday we had to be in the lobby by 5:45am to go on a snorkeling adventure to the famous Molokini Island. I was loving the fact I would be on a boat all day, I love it!! They fed us warm cinnamon rolls and fruit in the morning and BBQ chicken for lunch. We saw all kinds of colorful, amazing fish. We saw Nemo and Dori and many more. Then they took us over to Turtle land to see huge turtles swimming.

The sunrise from the boat

Molokini Island

Friday night we met at the harbor for an awards night and dinner cruise.

Me, Kym, and Amy

Tyler won the "Marketer of the year award" he didn't want his picture taken, the modest boy.

It reads: Marketer of the year
aka "El Animal"
25k miles and 25-hour days, baby!!!

Saturday came all to quickly and it was time to say goodbye to this beautiful hotel. We stayed at the Maui-Westin Resort and Spa

This is the lobby of the hotel. We were waiting for our bus to come and take us back to Beautiful Arizona...

We had such a wonderful trip and were so glad we had the opportunity to go and hang out with family and friends from work. Thanks babe for working so hard and being absolutely incredible at what you do!

Happy 9th Birthday Spencer

2009-06-01T23:54:00.001-07:00

I can't believe my first born little boy is 9 years old today. I still remember the moment he was born. Kissing his sweet soft newborn cheeks, in amazement that I actually brought this beautiful, perfect, tiny little spirit into this world. He is a blessing to our family, by setting a wonderful example for his brothers to follow. He is so obedient, loving, driven, smart, loves sports, and truly wants to do what is right. I thank Heavenly Father every day for sending you to our home. We love you Spencer!

From the time we moved to Arizona Spencer wanted to go to this water park called Big Surf, so for his Birthday we surprised him and went on Saturday. He was so excited and had a BLAST!

Kaden and Ashton were pretty thrilled they got to benefit from Spencer's Birthday too. It was pretty hot and Ashton ended up wearing more of his Ice cream then he ate. Kaden kept offering to help him out, but of course Ashton was having none of that!!

Today Spencer had a camp out at school, took donuts to his class, and got to pick his favorite place for dinner, and to top it all off heard from all his cousins and family as they sang Happy Birthday. He was one Happy boy when he went to bed tonight.

Happy Birthday Spencer!!

New story time...

2009-05-30T22:06:00.000-07:00

Friday, on the way to school I told the kids when they get home we were going swimming at Dave's house. Ashton 3, pipes up in the back and says, "Mommy, is Goliath going to be there too?"

Father and Son's Camp Out

2009-05-07T21:48:00.000-07:00

The boys have been looking forward to this weekend all year. They love to go camping and explore with their dad. They went to a camp called Oak Flat, just over an hour away.

Saturday morning after a traditional pancake breakfast, they hiked up this mountain and found real Indian Ruins. All I heard about when they returned home was these ruins and "Tonto" the Indian (Tonto was part of a story Tyler told the kids around the camp fire).
You can see the little civilization up in the mountain behind the kids.

The boys were so excited and had a great time...Ashy, you can go next year

Happy Easter

2009-04-12T21:35:00.000-07:00

We started the Easter weekend by going to the Mesa Easter Pageant at the Temple. We had never been before and WOW was it amazing! A cast of over 400 people take place in this every night for two weeks. What an incredible way to make the story of Christ come to life on stage. You feel the power of the spirit so strong, giving us a small glimpse into what it might have been like that last week of his life. The kids had a memorable time learning about Christ, walking around the temple, being with cousins, and loving all the soldiers and their swords...true boys!

We stopped at our favorite Cafe Rio and brought our dinner to eat while we were waiting a good hour and a half for it to start. Ashton was sitting on my lap watching so intently. He got so worried when he saw Christ being hurt and said, "Mommy, I don't like those Red guys they hurt Jesus. Why they do that?" I could not help the tears that began streaming down my face when I could not give him a Good reason WHY, because I had that same question. How could anyone have been so cruel to the Savior, MY Savior. I am so grateful to him for his sacrifice and love for each one of us.

On Saturday we went to Tyler's cousins for an Easter egg hunt. Ashton is in Heaven with his chocolate mouth kickin' back enjoying life. Then his cousin Lexie came over for a friendly "Hi." Oh boy, he grabbed his basket of candy and held it so tight saying, "mom shes gonna get my cannie!!!"

Spencer and Kaden went with Tyler to the Diamond Backs vs. Dodgers game and the boys were pinging off the walls...so excited to go, and maybe they would catch a ball! So, of course the little man wanted to go too but tickets were short. Instead he spent a fun night with mom coloring Easter eggs and watching Madagascar 2 It was a "mommy and me night" according to him.

Why is it every Easter I try for just ONE good picture of the kids in their Easter clothes and without fail, it Never Works. I hear, "I'm hot, the suns in my eyes, I don't want to take my picture, I closed my eyes, I'm tired, are we done........" So here is the best we did this year :)

Sunday night we all went to dinner at Tyler's other cousin and I think we counted something like 16 adults and over 30 kids...crazy! The Masks are wonderful and we love them for always making us feel welcome and including us when our familes are in California. Thanks for a great weekend. We love you all!!

Spring Break '09

2009-04-07T12:49:00.000-07:00

Spring Break 2009
We love Buzz!

Ashy and Uncle Tyler

Mickey Mouse signed Spencer's Baseball

These two were hilarious...they were about to burst!

Grandpa and Ashy

Ashton and Grandpa getting ready for the Toy Story ride

Grandma and Kaden on Toy Story

Ben, Alex, and Vanessa helping us defeat Zurg on Buzz Lightyear

Mom and Ashy on Dumbo. He loves to go up and down...up and down(anyone else sick)

Spencer and Kaden on Toy Story. Spencer's mouth full of skittles. We love this new ride!!

Spencer and Kaden

I love this adorable face!!
He truly still believes if he can't see you...You Can't See Him!

Boys waiting in line with their feathers

Waiting for the fireworks in Grandma's special spot

Me and my Boys

Kaden and Ashton had Buzz Lightyear sign their Disneyland Baseballs

Uncle Troy and Aunt Nellie took the boys on California Screamin'. I was still recovering from surgery. It was Kaden's first time and he loved it. Thanks guys, love ya

Ashton, Kaden, Spencer, Max, and Adam pondering...

Addie and Ashy. These two are so cute together. They are in their own world and have the funniest conversations with eachother.

Addie, Ashton, and new baby Berlynn

The boys got their Easter gifts a little early from Grandma and Grandpa

We had a wonderful time seeing our family and cousins. We love you all. You can come visit us in the HOT land anytime!

Why I love Jill Nicolle Garns

2009-03-22T09:10:00.000-07:00

In the beginning of February, I posted about Jill's recent experience with surgery. I told the story of what happened, but I didn't tell the whole story.

There was a time, before we got married, that I thought I had lost Jill forever. It was perhaps the darkest time of my life. I knew deep inside we were supposed to be together. Yet, that was impossible at the time. I struggled with the feelings inside me and the reality of the situation and finally came to some semblance of peace-of-mind. Of course, later, the situation changed, my wishes came true and I was able to marry the most beautiful, amazing woman I had ever met.

That process changed me. It made me appreciate her so much more than I would have otherwise. It also produced my biggest fear: losing her again. You see, now I drive her nuts because I want to soak up every minute I have with her. Last month's experience with her surgery was especially difficult because I felt like I came so close to losing her again. The good thing is that my appreciation for her was again increased. Shortly after the surgery was Jill's birthday. And for the last 10 days she and the kids have been in California during a school break.

These experiences over the last few weeks, and the recent time without her, have given me time to reflect on why I love her. I want the world to know why I love Jill Nicolle Garns.

I love her smile. There is nothing on this earth so bright and full of light.
She is the most caring person I know.
I love her tender heart and deep concern for others.
I love that she is an elegant lady in a world that pushes women to be brutes.
She is an amazing homemaker and I love that she takes such pride in keeping our home spotless, tidy, inviting, and full of warmth and love.
I couldn't ask for a better mother for our boys. She is a great teacher. Patient, loving, and uplifting.
It kills me to think of all of the physical and emotional pain that she has suffered in her life. But, I love that she has not let those things make her bitter, hateful, or angry. She chooses to be happy, full of life, and take care of others, no matter what pain she might feel.
I love just watching her walk. Pure grace.
Her kiss in the morning sustains me for the whole day.
Jill has eyes that immediately captive me and draw me in. I love the feeling I get when she just gives me quick glance and a wink.
Holding hands with Jill is an experience. She doesn't do anything halfway. And, when she holds my hand she squeezes tight! Sometimes too tight. But, I wouldn't trade it for anything in the world.
Jill seems to be aging in reverse. Every day she is more beautiful. How did I get so lucky?
I love that Jill is so forgiving. We all know how imperfect I am. And Jill still loves me and accepts me.
I love that Jill is a hard worker. I could never do what she does. She outworks me every day of the week.
Jill is committed and stays true to her word no matter what. I love that anyone can always count on her.
I love that Jill has unwavering faith. Her faith in God is unbreakable and her faith in others is inspiring.
Jill exudes charity. You can't be around her and not feel loved. If you ever need an emotional boost, just go sit by her. She'll make you feel like a million bucks.
Jill's beauty is timeless, elegant, inviting, warm, and bright. Her beauty extends from every ounce of her physical body to every part of her spirit. She is one of God's great masterpieces.
I love it when I tickle her and she tries to get angry with me. She can't hold back the smile and a little giggle.
I love waking up before she does and taking a moment to just look at her, embrace her, and give her a kiss on the forehead.
I love that Jill loves sweets. She't not a big fan of food. I think she eats just to stay alive. But she gets exceptional enjoyment out of eating anything sweet.
Jill is a perfectionist. In being so, she is uplifing all of us and helping us to be better. I love that she strives for perfection in all that she does and in all that she is.
I love her laugh.
I love her little tiny toes (even if they do overlap).
I love that she sorts my socks in alphabetical order so I can tell the black from the blue.
I love that she bought me a guitar so I'll learn to serenade her, even though she knows I can't sing any better than a hyena. I told you she had faith!
I love that she doesn't understand computers very well. It makes me feel smart when she asks for help.
I love that Jill has always supported my surfing habit.
I love that Jill is just as beautiful without make up on as she is with it on.
There are many thing I could say that would be completely inappropriate for a family blog, but let's just say that Jill is amazing in ALL aspects of our marriage (like holding hands).

Jill, I am grateful for many things in my life, but at the top of the list is my eternal marriage to you. I still can't believe that am lucky enough to be with you forever. I'm not sure I'll ever feel worthy, but that makes me strive to be better each day.

Jill Nicolle, I love you and I always will. Thank you for loving me back.

THANK YOU!!

2009-02-12T17:30:00.000-08:00

I must say, I have the BEST family and friends!! Thank you all for the notes, emails, calls, notes on Facebook, the help....Seriously, Thank you! I am finally starting to feel a little better. I still have a pretty bad pain in my head that won't leave and some issues in places I won't discuss, but over all, life is good. I will take pain any day over throwing up.
I had such different feelings going into this than I have ever had before. This was not the first time I have had surgery in my life, but it was the first time I ever had feelings of dying, which was really weird.
A week before the surgery, I kept having these feelings like I needed to get everything in order. I cleaned and organized every room in the house. I was saying things to the boys like, " Here are your winter clothes for next year, I want you to know how much mommy loves you, and here are all mommies pictures, and if mommy is not here..." It was very strange. The night before my surgery my parents got here and I took my mom through the house to each room telling her where stuff was, but not like normal...in detail. I was telling her up in Ashton's closet were clothes that I have stored, 3T, 4T, and 5T and here are so and so...Then I took her in the boys room and did the same. I had her come into my closet and I was showing her where all my pictures of the kids and their scrapbooks were and I even said to her, " in case something happens to me..." She looked at me and said, "Don't even say that." I had gone back several times and read a personal blessing that was given to me, and afterwards thought, " I am supposed to have a long life with time to do certain things on this Earth." and then I would think, "Why am I being so crazy?" So when Tyler told me the things I had said after surgery I was feeling very thankful. The one thing I do remember about the dream is that I was talking to the boys, each one individually and that I was very concerned about where Ashton was and if he was okay. I remember kissing Tyler and that is all. Well then when I came home from the hospital and still was not feeling a whole lot better I was a little concerned but it wasn't until Monday night when I started violently throwing up and had this unimaginable pain and pressure behind my right eye. I kept thinking my right temple was going to explode and I really started to worry. I am not one to go to the doctor easily, especially not the ER, but I tell you that night I didn't hesitate for a second. Hair in a bun, no makeup on, in my pj's (those of you who know me, know I don't go anywhere like this and for the first time in my life... I didn't care) As Tyler was driving me to the hospital and I am continuing to throw up and have this pain, I was sitting there thinking..".Is this why I had everything prepared, is something going to happen to me." Then I just kept fearing that I was going to go blind or have a stroke or who knows? ( It is a real problem when you have a medical background, because your mind immediately goes to all the worst possible outcomes). I remember as we sat there in the ER I was uncontrollably shaking, my eye twitching, I'm throwing up constantly, the nurse could not find a vein for anything, and I looked over at Tyler and said, pleading..." Please don't let me die ugly!"
I have never experienced anything quite like this one and I hope the worst is behind me, but I have to say that I am here today because of the Priesthood. I am so grateful for blessings and the power to command things to happen...because they did! Tyler is an amazing, wonderful man. My best friend, my rock and support through this whole thing. I love him and my boys more than anything!! Family, where do I begin...Thank you Thank you with all my heart. You are all priceless!! I am truly grateful for each day.

Jill Defeats Death - Twice

2009-02-04T08:18:00.001-08:00

The last week has been pretty rough. Here's the full story for everyone who keeps calling for an update:

Ever since our second son was born (7 years ago), Jill has had multiple health problems from the traumatic delivery (she broke her sacrum and dislocated her pelvis, and had a 4th degree tear). One of those problems that has caused her much pain has been a 3rd degree prolapsed uterus. She's been in constant pain and has developed other associated issues (fibroid tumors in her uterus and other stuff).

The last few months the pain has become much worse, and after much fasting and prayer, we decided it was probably wise to take action and have them explore to find out where the pain was coming from and if he had to, to do a hysterectomy. We told the doctor to only take this action if it was necessary. Last Thursday, Jill was admitted to Banner Gateway Hospital in Gilbert, AZ. I waited in the waiting room with Jill's mom. After about 3 hours the doc came out, showed us pictures of the damaged uterus, and told us that the surgery went well and we'd see her soon in recovery.

Well an hour passed, and another hour, and we started getting really anxious. They told us she was being sent to her room, room number 1420. So we headed to her room and she wasn't there. The nurses on the floor said that they couldn't call down to the operating floor to get a status but she'd be up soon. So, we waited and waited some more. Finally I went down stairs and demanded to see my wife. The pansy at the desk didn't do anything to help and sent me back upstairs. He said she'd be up in about 10 minutes.

She did finally show up, but she wasn't in a normal state of mind. They told us that they had a hard time getting her to come out of the anesthesia. I'm pretty sure they were severely downplaying the trouble she had been in, because she was still pretty much non-responsive and her breathing was extremely shallow. The nurse came over and put her hand on her chest to make sure she was still breathing. Her heart rate and blood pressure kept dropping. She could open her eyes only for a second, then she'd go right back to sleep. After a while, she was able to talk just a little bit. She was still pretty out of it, but we were able to start having a little conversation.

At one point she asked me, "What did they do?" I responded, "They did a hysterectomy". I think the combination of the medication and the facts hit her hard. She started sobbing. She was devastated that they had done a hysterectomy. I was a little confused because we had discussed this at length and felt ok about it. But at the time, she was NOT feeling ok about it. She was approaching uncontrollable. She started sobbing, "My baby, my baby. I want my baby." I couldn't stand it. It was one of the saddest points of my life, watching her be so devastated by what had happened to her. During all of this, she was still coming in and out of consciousness. Every time she woke up, she'd ask again, "What happened?" I didn't have the heart to tell her every time that they had done a hysterectomy. She obviously was not remembering anything and I didn't want to see her be so hurt over and over.

At one point in her delirium, she started crying and said, "I had a dream that I was dying. I was really scared." That scared me too and at that point I realized how close she may have come to dying when they were tyring to wake her up for over two hours. They had given her Narcan to reverse the effect of the anesthesia. Prior to the surgery they had given her spinal anesthesia so that she wouldn't feel the pain when she woke up and wouldn't have to take as much opioid medication. Well, the Narcan wiped out everything. So, as she was coming to, she was feeling EVERYTHING. She was in serious pain and they wouldn't give her anything because they were still worried about her not coming out of it.

At one point her oxygen levels dropped pretty low, the alarms started going off, and of course we got pretty worried about her. Shortly after, a nurse came in and started monitoring Jill's breathing very closely. She had her hand on Jill's chest making sure she was breathing. Her breathing was so shallow you couldn't even see her chest moving.

After about two and a half hours of Jill coming in and out of consciousness, she finally started to become a little more alert. I asked her if she remembered our previous conversations and she said no. She didn't remember sobbing about getting a hysterectomy and she didn't remember her dream about dying. Good thing!

Later that night, I ran out to grab something to eat. I called mom and told her what had happened. I had stayed pretty strong at the hospital. But as I recounted the experience, I sobbed. I had been so scared and so worried.

She finally came home from the hospital on Saturday afternoon. She's been slowly recovering. She gets horribly sick from anesthesia and from any opioid medication. So, she hasn't taken much of the Percocet that they gave her. She's just been dealing with the pain because she'd rather have that than the nausea. She's also had a pretty bad headache ever since she came home. I figured it was probably from the spinal she had received.

On Monday night she started vomiting violently. During the vomiting, she started having a sudden, intense pain in her right temple and behind her right eye. She started crying (almost hysterically) and holding her head and eye saying, "The pain. The pain. It hurts." For a normal person, this might not be any big deal, but Jill is Superwoman. I've seen her experience some pretty serious pain in the past. All while her back was breaking and her hips getting dislocated during delivery, she only shed a few tears. When she's in pain, her eyes close and she sheds a few tears - but she almost never says anything or cries verbally. So when I saw her having this kind of reaction, I knew something was horribly wrong.

While she was kneeling on the floor of the bathroom, holding her head and crying, I gave her a blessing and then rushed her to the ER. Of course, the ER docs didn't seem to be too concerned when we came in as she was throwing up and crying about the pain in her head. So, I pretty much demanded that they see her right away. We were able to get back to see a doc quickly. They could not start an IV and were poking her everywhere. They checked her vitals but didn't do much else. She was obviously going into shock - she was shaking uncontrollably and cold. They did nothing. I even mentioned to the doc and the nurse that she was in shock. They still did nothing. I was shocked they didn't look in her eye or anything. But she did get a head CT scan fairly soon after they first saw her. We waited FOREVER to finally see the doc and hear the results of the CT scan. Thankfully, nothing showed up in the CT scan, but I was still bothered but what she had experienced and the fact that we had no explanation.

She was still feeling pretty sick and vomiting, so they hooked up an IV to give her some meds. She again refused the morphine because it just makes her feel more sick. They gave her Zofran for the nausea. It didn't do much. I told them that Phentergan had worked well in the hospital. So, they drew up some more Zofran and Phentergan. As the nurse pushed the "Zofran" into her IV he stopped and said, "Oh, that wasn't Zofran." and started walking out of the room. I called him back and asked him what he had given her. She said, "Oh, I didn't actually give it to her. I hooked it up. But, when I realized it was Compazine, I unhooked it. She didn't actually get any." I was livid! I had sat there and watched him push it into her IV. I called him on it too. He still denied it and left. I was extremely bothered because I know Compazine from my Pfizer days. Compazine is an antipsychotic. Yes its used sometimes to control nausea, but it also can have some seriously gnarly side effects that can last for life.

When the doc came back, he was about to discharge Jill with no explanation, only negative results from a CT scan and was now anemic and had an infection they could treat with antibiotics. He was young and seemed somewhat inexperienced. I pushed him hard to exhaust ALL options. I told him that I know my wife's tolerance for paid and this experience was not normal. After I pushed him, he said, "Well, I did have a thought earlier to do a spinal tap. The CT scan is about 97% accurate. A spinal tap will tell us for sure if she's had any bleeding in her brain or an infection." So, we told him to do it. Again his inexperience shone through. I watched as he fished around in her spine trying trying to find CSF. I've seen other docs do this with no hesitation, hitting it the first time, no doubts. He fished and fished and finally found it. Luckily it dripped out clear.

After another long wait, he came back and told us that the spinal fluid looked good and there was no sign of a bleed or infection.

Shortly thereafter she was discharged. It was 6:00 am.

Needless to say, we went home and went straight to bed. Jill was still in pain and still nauseated. But, both had subsided just enough for her to get some rest. She's feeling better now, although she's still got a headache and is still somewhat noxious.

I just want to thank everyone for your thoughts and prayers. It was so comforting to be able to shoot out a quick text message asking family and friends to pray for her and get immediate replies that so many people were on their knees praying for her safety. I know Jill and I know the power of the Lord. And the only thing that explains all this to me is that miracles were performed.

Thank you all. We love you.

Birthday Time!!

2009-01-25T20:42:00.001-08:00

Today is Ashton's 3rd Birthday!!

Ashton shares this Wonderful day with my Amazing Dad!
Grandpa and Ashton have a special little bond that I love to watch when they are together. Daddy, you are the greatest and I can't thank you enough for all you've done for me. You have a way of knowing just what I need. You're patience, loving support, desire to do good, your playtime with the grandkids, hard work ethic, service in the church, and your love for mom are priceless gifts to me. I love you dad. Happy Birthday!!

Ashton has been waiting for this day all week. We went to the store on Friday to buy the ingredients to make him a birthday cake. He wanted his special cake and frosting in his own bag to carry out of the store. He carried it to the car and into the house.
I ran up stairs for a minute when all the sudden I hear him down stairs saying," Mom, I'm making my Birthday cake." As I come running down stairs, I found him with the scissors and he had opened his candle, cut the bag with the cake mix, and was beginning to pour it out.
" I help you Mommacita"

This morning we were walking down the stairs and he said to me,
"Mom, let's go sing to me" as he proceeded to sing..."Happy Birthday to ME, Happy Birthday to ME!"

My little Darth Vader

This little guy keeps our family laughing. Last night he said the prayer for dinner which went a little something like:
"Dear Heavenly Father, Thank you for this day.
Thank you for, these cheerios I'm eating (there was a little snack bag of cheerios left on the table and as he said those words began to eat them)
Thank you that Ashton not like sauce on his quesadilla, and we get to go in a tent tomorrow (not really)
Amen!

Then he told me the other day as I was putting him in his car seat, "Mommy, little Ashton's are really cute huh."
" I love you Mommy, you my best friend" Does it get any better!
I can't believe my little baby is not such a little baby anymore. He is 3 years old, and I was just recalling the day he was born, like it was yesterday.
He is becoming a pretty independent little man. All potty trained, and out of all the baby gear. On one hand these are wonderful mile stones, on the other it reminds me he is growing up.
I love you Ashy. You are my special little boy

Christmas 2008

2009-01-16T21:06:00.000-08:00

The kids on Sunday before Christmas!

Christmas Eve with Grandpa and Grandma Garns and Great Grandpa and Grandma Shumway

We decided to have Christmas in our own home this year because first, we have one this year! Yippee! Second, for the last 10 years we have been at our parents. It was getting to hard for Santa to deliver gifts as the kids have gotten older. Of course we could not completely stay away from family, so Garns happen to be in town for Christmas Eve, and then we left Christmas Morning after we opened our gifts and went to my parents to be with the rest of my family.

Christmas Eve Santa delivers P.J's on the front porch
the kids go running to the door and try to catch him...they are always a second too late!

Christmas Morning!!
The kids line up at the top of the stairs and one by one come running down to see what Santa has left them...
Ashton loved his Diego Scooter

And Buzz Lightyear

All Kaden asked for this year was Bakugan's and Rock collection stuff.

Spencer asked for a Rock Polisher and a pocket knife

Tyler bought be a gift card to this Amazing store called Hobby Lobby and some mats for exercising.
( maybe that was a hint...)
I bought him an Awesome guitar, that he is loving learning to play it!
After the kids opened all their gifts we headed off to California to spend Christmas Day with all the family

Ashton loves his Reindeer. He rides it all over the house as it's bells jingle and it sings songs.
The four little cousins eating
Addie, Max, Adam, and Ashton

Our Family

Great Grandma and the new man in her life Great Grandpa White

For New Years Eve, Mom and Dad's ward was having a big party at the church, so we took the kids over and they had a blast!

Making crowns, singing to High School Musical, playing Rock Band, dress up, food, games, and of course blow horns and balloons!

The kids did the count down to 2009 and rang in the New Year by stomping on balloons and bubble wrap, while blowing horns and cheering...Happy New Year.

We are so grateful for our family and blessed for the birth of the Savior
We love you all!

Basketball Party

2009-01-13T12:37:00.001-08:00

The boys had their Basketball Party and got their trophy!
This was the last season they could play together due to the age limit. They have really had fun together!

Spencer was the MVP for the season, so the coach bought him a candy cane as big as him. He really is a great little ball player. He is small but mighty!

This is their team at Barro's Pizza

Scouts

2009-01-13T12:29:00.001-08:00

Spencer has been in Scouts since June when he turned 8. He got his Bobcat and I never posted about it. So... this is for Spencer. Great job, bud! We love you!

Hunting for Geodes

2008-12-30T18:41:00.000-08:00

Last Saturday, I decided to take the boys geode hunting. They're WAY into rocks right now and geodes are the ultimate. If you don't know what geodes are, they're the hollow rocks that develop crystals inside. So, we found out that there are a few specific places where you can find geodes. One popular place is the Hauser Geode Beds just outside of Blythe (a 3 hour drive from Temecula - where we're staying for the holidays). We decided to make it an all day adventure. Jill packed us lunches. Dawson & Grandpa came with us and we had a great time.

Here's a picture of the boys hard at work looking for geodes. Apparently the geodes form in volcanic ash. So, we spent a lot of time digging & breathing ash!

The boys had a blast and found some really cool geodes. I'll post some pictures of the geodes they found later as well as some pictures that Grandpa took of the boys on top of a nearby extinct volcano.

P.S. I'd definitely recommend a geode hunt for anyone with boys between the ages of 5 & 11. Fun stuff.

Temple Lights

2008-12-15T14:52:00.000-08:00

For Family night we went to the Temple to look at the lights. The kids love this tradition and look forward to it every year. I must say that the Mesa Temple is decked out!! They have lights everywhere and on everything. The kids had fun going around to each of the little scenes they had set up with Mary, Joseph, and baby Jesus, and the Wisemen. Ashy loved the donkey's and animals around the stable. After we looked at the lights we went into the visitors center and saw all the Nativities from all over the world they had displayed. We then saw the massive statue of Christ and listened to a message they play about him. It was so sweet to watch Ashton's face as we walked into the room with this huge statue of Christ. He got silent and his little eyes were just fixed on Christ. It wasn't that long ago that he left his Heavenly Father and I'm sure it must spark a feeling inside little kids, just by their reaction when they see their older brother.

Bananas

2008-12-15T14:42:00.000-08:00

Kaden was so excited to bring Bananas home from school. In his first grade class the star student of the week gets to bring Bananas (the monkey) home for the weekend. They have to take it with them wherever they go and take pictures of what they did together. Then they make a little poster and put the pictures of their weekend.
It is a little creepy when you think that monkey goes to all the kids homes, so Bananas had a bath as soon as he came to our house.

Thanksgiving Week...

2008-12-14T15:37:00.000-08:00

We had a wonderful Thanksgiving with Tyler's family. This was the first holiday that everyone in his family was married and we had a great time playing games and hanging out. We've had a year of trials and yet through them, so many miracles and reasons to be grateful. We are so happy to be out of boxes and settled in our home. The kids are all doing well and Tyler has a job, in this economy that is a real blessing. We have great family and friends who have always been there to support and love. I have an Amazing husband who works so hard to provide for our family. He is the best father to our 3 boys and the greatest husband EVER!! Most of all we are especially grateful for our Savior and his love and sacrifice for us.The MEN in my LIFE...I love them!

Thanksgiving would not be the same without the famous "Turkey Bowl"
The cousins all went in their P.J.'s
Uncle Grant, Aunt Linny, Uncle Sterling, Aunt Jenna, Uncle Jared, Tyler, Grandpa,
Logan, Sawyer, Spencer, and Kaden

The whole clan

Kaden's a happy boy!!!

We celebrated Kaden's 7th Birthday! We all went around the room and said why we love Kaden. The consensus was, we love him because: He is...
Creative, loving, tenderhearted, funny, good artist, makes everyone laugh, sensitive, honest, says sweet prayers and loves his Heavenly Father
When we were all done, Kaden was feeling like quite the KING!!

We celebrated Kaden and Grant's Birthdays!!

The kids, "Big and Little" made ginger bread houses

Spencer and Kaden wanted to go see our old house in Valencia, so we did a little drive by and took a picture
24261 Kotler court
Great Memories in this home...

Tyler had to work with a client in San Diego, so while they were working and surfing, we went to
Sea World!!
The kids love this huge shark mouth

Love the Polar ice cave. This is Ashy's "ROAR"

By the end of the day Ashton was so tired. We got back to the hotel and bathed the kids. Ashton climbed into his bed with pillows and blankets all around him and he was OUT...but oh so cute when asleep. We had a great week and are thankful we could be with our family on this special holiday.

Look At Me!!

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On Sunday, Ashton came running into our bathroom saying, " Mom, look at me...I'M SHARP!"